"Falling in love is easy
Staying in love is the hard part"
Why be in love?
Does everyone rely on another person for inner happiness?
What if that person promised you eternal happiness
Would you believe them?
Do people not realize the possibility of lies, behind those promises?
Well ask yourself this,
If you think you can handle love, can you handle sudden rejection?
Rejection that comes out of the blue?
Do the people that think they are in "love" ever have second thoughts?
Thoughts about their partners?
Thoughts about another person they previously loved?
Thoughts of leaving them?
What is the true order of things?
Does love come first or last?
Would it be wrong if it came first?
To answer these questions...
Yes
People do rely on others for happiness,
but is it because they truly cannot provide it themselves?
or is it just because they are too lazy to make an effort to provide their own happiness?
Yes
People do promise you happiness
A happiness that will last forever
Yes
People do believe every fucken' thing they hear from others
They believe the lies that become promises
They will believe anything that sounds like an eternal bliss, but what people never consider of
is if that so called "bliss" will become an eternal love
or hate
Yes
People don't think about any type of consequence
In the heat of the moment, they don't think
Because all they can hear is a beautiful made up future that is only beautiful in a goddamn romantic comedy
No
Of course no one can handle rejection
When someone is telling you that they are in love with you,
one can only assume that they are set for life.
You don't need to try to find yourself a nice mate anymore
Because the lucky bastard is right in front of you spilling out his heart to you
You don't think about the stupid, unreal word of "rejection,"
Until one day, it sneaks up on you, forces itself, all nice an snug, in your ass
and stays there,
over time
until it needs something to eat
Thats when it will feast at you
and will turn you into nothing...
Yes
Second guessing is an a curing process in ones mind
You wonder if this is the right partner for you, for life
Then once you get to know this person, and when you accidentally think of someone else, for one second, you start to wonder more about what you're doing with yourself
Then you start to imagine a life without your partner, a less stressful life
And deciding to ignore it, these feelings of regret,
will only put fuel on the fire
and letting the liquids set into the wood will result in a fire bigger than you could never think possible
No
Love should never come first
When one claims to already be in love with you, even though its been the first few months of togetherness,
or even the first few weeks
the long term relationship will only be the harder to keep up with
It would only mean that the partner was just not realizing what he was even saying,
what this person was getting into
who they were in love with in the first place
and going on believing the lies, raising a high expectations, having fantasies and believing them
Will all shatter when one leasts expects it
And will make you feel useless
Saddened
Depressed
Crushed
Unloved
and could never be truly loved
could never try again
could never....have a chance to mend the broken heart
Please
Readers of the world
Don't become a joke
Don't become an embarrassment
Don't try to become in love, just to become less lonely
Don't believe a word he says
Don't become...
like me
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